i've always found it extremely uneasy to find the appropriate words to say in difficult, depressing situations.was watching "house", and dr fulman is sufferin frm his illness. and his dad was sittin in the chapel.
and he asked: what should i say? should i tell him it's gonna be okay? or should i tell him goodbye. i need to know what other people say.
been facing several difficult situations recently. not directly, but matters that concern me and my family a great deal. first is a wedding that could collapse, simply cos, the parents refuse to be understanding, even to the point that they shld really take full responsibility for this disaster. and what could i say? what should i say?
was sitting wif a relative of mine at the hospital. she speaks dialect, teochew to be accurate, which i cant very proudly say i dun really understand. fortunately my bro was translating for me. she was sayin, please do not baptise her when shes old and senile, cos she doesnt wanna be seperated frm her late husband forever.
which really is a sticky scenario. cos this not only shows how great her love for her husband is. but it shows that she understands two other things. one being her husband being in a less than desirable place, yet at the meantime knowing that a baptism cld bring her to the more than desirable place. and her love for her husband transcends all these, that she would be willing to stay wif her husband forever but remain seperated from our creator. so what could i say? what should i say?
a fren of mine. his mum is facin 6 months. and this mum, she's a really cheerful person. i dun know her well, but i know the influence she has over all those ard her. yet at sucha young age, it cld well be the end of the story. but when i visited her, she displayed such great courage and cheerfulness, that it overwhelms me. with shame. i didn't speak a word throughout the whole visit. cos i just didn't what i could say. or what i should say.
well i'm still stuck in the moment whereby i dunno wad to say. nuttin wise to share wif anyone here hahaha i read jingmin's blog and i always find that she has a solution, which really is sumthin to be envied. just hope i find my words soon.
